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NEGOTIATOR
Core function
The Negotiator leads with Agreements: turning interaction into commitment, aligning expectations, and making decisions real through clear terms and timing.
A Negotiator doesn’t just “talk it through.”
A Negotiator closes.
You’re at your best when
- people are circling issues and someone must create clarity,
- collaboration needs terms (roles, boundaries, deliverables, timing),
- stakeholders have different agendas and you can align incentives,
- a project needs a decision that can survive pressure and ambiguity,
- conflict is present and needs resolution without avoidance or explosion.
Typical strengths
- decisive clarity: defining what is agreed and what is not,
- strong sense for incentives, leverage, and hidden stakes,
- translating complexity into concrete commitments,
- protecting outcomes by eliminating ambiguity early.
Predictable distortions (how you sabotage yourself)
When your strength becomes a trap, it looks like:
- control through agreements: using deals to manage insecurity,
- premature closure: forcing decisions before truth is visible,
- transactionalizing everything: reducing human reality to terms and leverage,
- winning the negotiation, losing the relationship: “I got the deal” becomes the metric.
If you turn every interaction into a contract, people will comply—and then quietly leave.
Your blind spot
Your blind spot is usually Design / Meaning.
You can confuse:
- “we agreed” with
- “this is worth doing.”
A Negotiator can build perfect commitments around the wrong objective.
What you need from others
Negotiators thrive when other functions keep the loop honest:
- Concepter (ensures the “what” is coherent before it’s committed),
- Compagnon (keeps agreements grounded in trust and human reality),
- Controller (tests assumptions so commitments don’t become fantasy),
- Achiever / Stabiliser (turns agreements into real delivery and continuity),
- Optimiser (refines what’s working instead of renegotiating forever).
If you surround yourself with only closers, you’ll get speed — and increasing future blowups.
Practical moves (useful immediately)
1) Separate meaning from terms
Before closing, ask:
- “What are we actually trying to achieve?”
- “What would make this a bad deal even if it’s ‘successful’?”
2) Close in layers
Don’t force total certainty upfront. Close progressively:
- first commitment → small delivery → review → deeper commitment.
3) Make “no” clean
A strong Negotiator doesn’t pressure people into “yes.”
They create conditions where “no” is safe and “yes” is real.
4) Put the agreement in writing
Not for bureaucracy — for reality:
- who,
- what,
- by when,
- success criteria,
- what happens if it fails.
One-line warning
If you chase certainty through control, your agreements will look strong — and collapse the moment reality changes.
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